This is one of our favorite games to play at wedding receptions.
Chinese wedding door games money.
Also being taiwanese but ethnically chinese does make a difference in a lot of things but i m not sure it does in this instance posted by jabberjaw at 11 15 am on march 2 2012.
At a chinese wedding there is a table at the entrance of the wedding reception where guests give their red envelopes to attendants and sign their names on a large scroll.
There is no lucky amount well maybe if you want to go up to 800.
The grooms men are also supposed to carry little red pockets of money called lai see to bribe the bridesmaids to let them in.
999 or 99 99 as 9 has the same sound as long jiu for a long marriage.
The newlyweds take a seat in front of their guests sitting back to back.
Although there are no official door games it s common for pranks to embarrass the grooms men i ll give an example of that in another post.
Picking out a gift for a chinese wedding is usually pretty simple.
The standard gift.
Door blocking wedding games the most popular game is to bargain for a red packet either of huge amount or of amounts that requires a difficult mixture of notes and coins.
The wedding reception was pretty similar to the one the previous night except it was indoors and a little fancier and once again the married couple and maids of honor did not get to eat much of the food as they were too busy paying respects to the relatives.
The shoe game.
Chinese pre wedding customs are traditional chinese rituals prescribed by the 禮記 láih gei book of rites the 儀禮 yìh láih book of etiquette and ceremonial and the 白虎通 baahk fú tùng bai hu tong condensed into a series of rituals now known as the 三書六禮 sàam syù luhk láih three letters and six rites.
The attendants will immediately open the envelope count the money inside and record it on a register next to the guests names.
No wedding games were played nor bouquets thrown much to my disappointment.
With only six days left until our wedding luke and i are looking forward to breathing huge sighs of relief when the big day finally arrives and also wondering how it passed by so fast.
The double happiness character 囍 shuangxi 双喜 appears on the envelope which back in the day was hand delivered to the guests a few days before the.
Chinese wedding invitations are usually presented in a long red envelope similar to the traditional hongbao in which money is gifted to people at weddings during chinese new year etc.
Photo by holly clark 11.
This tradition of blocking the door demonstrates their unwillingness to marry off the bride because of their love for her.